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  • Writer: Laura Grá
    Laura Grá
  • Oct 7, 2019
  • 3 min read

Most of the time, we are losing ourselves in our age, reproducing the products of our Mind in the safe remnants of the preconceptions we bear.

We sink in our Time, forming an universal memory of Us, encapsulated in a pattern given by the manufactured society.

The course of our age doesn’t have to be predictable, it is not compulsory to follow all the pre-destined phases of your existence implemented by conformity.

You could have your own personal Youth,anytime!

Youth is an Arcadian age of Time, endowed with the beatitude of Madness, with the creative Irrationality of Thoughts, growing into a careless and frameless chronology of war within.

Youth can follow two patterns: the innate Youth, the ordinary one, the one you don’t have merits for and the Youth you acquire after losing the first one.

The innate Youth is exactly what you expect to be : the age of turbulence, of tribulations, recklessness, sweet lunacy, of love and innocence or both in one. We take this kind of youth for granted, we know it is not reliable, but it embraces the most alluring, but also the most deceiving and disappointing form of life.

It is a perturbatory age, where drifting is the only Creed and enthusiasm reaches diabolic dimensions. This known Youth distinguished itself by its controversial revolution of the body and mind, causing either fear and reluctance or uncontrollably blast of anger and frenzy.

It is impossible to estimate the magnitude of Youth, but you can definitely feel its relentlessness, hear its astounding glory and taste its magnificent bravery.

The first Youth is not cursive, but steep and whimsical , a true emotional precipice. The innate Youth displays an anarchic promise that sells illusions in the most majestic way, being an extreme riot, a defoliate laughter that invades the world’s horizons with the magnificence of the life desire.

The aged Youth, the second one, represents a sophomoric journey into yourself.

This ripe Youth Is not a poser, it is losing its sense of suddenness and the fatal identity of hope, living an introvert existence in the suburbs of your MIND.

A stage where the mature Youth does its performance is perfectly adapted to the constellations of your Mind, not to temporality. It is that kind of youth you have to build gradually in compliance with your dreams.We will call this Youthdom: your own galaxy of dreams and emotions.

The architecture of this galaxy of the second youth into your life is built on the scaffolding of a constant adventure into your Mindland, into the kingdom of your heart, overcoming the abruptness and the inclemency of the social conventions.

This is the most beautiful accident of Time.

Unfortunately, not everybody could achieve this state of the second Youth, but only those being able to fall in love all over again , not aiming at a particular beneficiary of their passion.

This kind of youth never ends, dealing with a moment suspended in Time, when Logic is abolished in order to reach the condition of being “wisemerising” (this is not an acknowledged concept, but one born out of Love, referring to the wisdom transfixed by Love).

It’s up to you to taste this mysteriousophical age of Mind, if you dare!

Age should strip off its temporality in order to open windows of perceptions, mere pathways to immortality of thoughts.

YOU ARE NOT DWELLING IN YOUR AGE, BUT YOUR AGE IS DWELLING IN YOU!

DON’T RUIN YOUR YOUTH BY AGING!


 
 
 
  • Writer: Laura Grá
    Laura Grá
  • Oct 1, 2019
  • 2 min read

Solitude. White loneliness

People are tailored differently, carrying polymorphic solitudes that shape their inner conduct.

Solitude is a boost thinking journey into your internal universe of thoughts.

In the old times of Plato, the perception about solitude embraced all the mechanical ingredients of loneliness as a feeling of melancholy purposely leading to isolation of thoughts in order for them to evolve into ideas.

The intellectual loneliness could be easily turned into solitude or I’d better choose a specific utterance: SOULitude – as an ensouled loneliness, a mere introspection that gives you life fuel or SOLEitude – the existence of the only person involved in the process of thinking.

In other times, this binomial construction of solitude emerged from the inner necessity of understanding the world, being an induced state of loneliness for intellectual purposes.

Nowadays, solitude represents the bare feeling of loneliness, a social and spiritual estrangement generating anxiety and sadness.

The connotation of loneliness is linked to the negative side of the feelings in opposition to solitude that deals with the inner life of the soul itself as a vehicle of self discovery.

If you ask Loneliness when she’s a little: “What would you like to become when you grow up?” She will answer straight away: “Solitude”. 

Solitude stands for the paratext of loneliness, a conscious extension of a concept, evolving in images.

The place of solitude in people could be either their heaven or hell.

Solitude is ethereal, fluid, light, creative, delivering our visceral truth in an ultimate morphological shell of a thought.

This conveys our intimate heaven of hopes and dreams.

It is solitude that reaches our metaphysical horizons, the intimacy of a prayer and the eloquence of a soliloquy. Loneliness evokes the heavy, solid and uncomplimentary references from your own consciousness, an elegy of a lost thought, mirroring your Hell of emotions, like a majestic foe.

Loneliness is not able to celebrate happiness,unless it is gratified with enjoyable quarrels with your inner self.

WE ALL ARE LONELY UNTIL WE REACH OUR SOLITUDE !

 
 
 
  • Writer: Laura Grá
    Laura Grá
  • Sep 28, 2019
  • 2 min read

Recommended specifically to those who have emotions.

For the light-hearted.

This is a Virtual Land with stories about life and other complicated endeavours.

A former (girl)friend of mine made me feel like a big NOTHING by saying untidy words to me.

On that very moment I decided that I wouldn’t do that to anyone, not even to myself.

This blog is a place destined to beauty in the world, to the bright side of the Moon, to the Earthly Gardens of Delight, to God, to peace of mind, to optimism and to you, you Mighty Reader, in the very best form of yourself.

We know what we want, but sometimes what we want doesn’t synchronize to what we NEED.

Thus, I will try to underline our emotional needs and to achieve a state of Mindfulness.

“Our mind should be full” is the first emotional amendment.

Everybody needs physical hugs, but what about our Mind ? Can it receive hugs as well ?

Hugs for the mind, this what I’m going to offer you here: good company, piece of happiness, bravery, confidence, a virtual friend (the specific kind of friend that children love: an imaginary friend) who will listen to you, give you piece of wisdom, comfort, a piece of humanity and will keep the light on in your darkness.

Here I am going to use Scheherazade’s method (eliciting feelings and stories in order to postpone unwanted outcomes) by focusing not on solving your problems but on diverting them until they will transform in their euphemistic versions: lighter perspectives.

Or emotional metabolism in comparison to the physical one is compulsory to be slow in order to receive as many emotions as possible.

This will favour the building of a mental firewall to prevent malignant thoughts entering in our Mindland.

There are times when we are not able to activate our emotional firewall. In such cases, you could be your own therapist with a little help from your friends 🙂 .

Emotional self-regulation could be easly achieved if we follow the children’s method of managing feelings.

The Hugland is to prevent loneliness in people that reaches nowadays its infinite magnitude.

STOP LIVING AN INGLORIOUS LIFE AND START YOUR INNER VOYAGE !

LEARN FROM THE CHILDREN, THEY WILL TEACH YOU TO LIVE YOUR LIFE NATURALLY !

BE YOUR OWN HERO !!!


 
 
 
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